Between Honesty and Harmony
In Japan, the proverb “Sincere honesty is a lifetime’s treasure” has been cherished by ordinary people since ancient times. It teaches that honesty is a virtue to be protected throughout one’s life, as living truthfully earns trust over time and ultimately leads to success and happiness. Yet there is another saying—“Honesty doesn’t pay” or “Honest people get the short end of the stick”—which reflects the tension between ideals and reality. From a short-term, pragmatic view, the world can be harsh, shaped by conflicting interests, and strict honesty or integrity may sometimes bring disadvantage. While many people believe sincere honesty is a lifelong treasure, everyday life often blurs the line between honesty and small, socially accepted untruths. As another proverb suggests, “A lie can be a useful tool,” not to deceive for personal gain, but to smooth human relationships or prevent harm when intentions are good.