Escaping the Blue Bird Syndrome for a Fulfilling Life

When we were younger, many of us tended to fall into the trap of the Blue Bird Syndrome, where we would try to chase and catch the blue-colored birds, dreaming of a magnificent future without putting in significant effort in our current familiar society or workplace. Although I understood the meaning of the Syndrome well, I found myself on the verge of falling into the trap several times, perhaps because the grass on the other side of the fence often appeared greener than my own. However, as I grew older, I became convinced that in reality, their grass situation is not as good as it seems. Given these circumstances, I have come to realize that focusing on living in the present moment is the shortest route to fulfilling our life needs, rather than searching for a non-existent blue-colored bird.

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