An Extended Series of Consolation Matches

Life can be likened to an extended series of consolation matches, known as "Haisha hukkatu sen" in Japanese, each event unfolding along the journey. It's an inherent truth that nobody can maintain a continuous victory throughout the entirety of life's game. Generally, the act of winning or losing these matches doesn't carry profound significance within life. What truly matters is gleaning valuable lessons from wholehearted participation in each necessary match, adopting the role of an eternal life challenger. These lessons then serve as valuable measures to be applied to subsequent situations. Through this continuous process, we can lead a life without regrets, embracing every opportunity to the fullest. The modest existence of human beings is, undoubtedly, quite endearing.

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