Finding True Happiness in Adversity

 

Seikan Kobayashi (1948-2011), a Japanese author and psychology researcher, once remarked, “The true happiness exists in the moments that are generally perceived as unhappiness passing by.” From my perspective, this statement reflects the notion that genuine happiness often emerges from situations typically considered unhappy. For instance, when one recovers from a severe illness, they come to appreciate the true joy of good health, a concern often taken for granted. Kobayashi further elaborated, stating, “Thanks to phenomena perceived as unfortunate, people improve and grow.” “If you consider that what you've perceived as unfortunate up until now might actually be just the first half of happiness, the world might start to look different,” Kobayashi continued. This suggests that when we surmount initially distressing situations, our inner selves undergo positive transformation, leading to personal growth and enrichment. Therefore, if we adopt a positive outlook towards adversity, viewing it as an opportunity for genuine happiness, we are likely to experience reduced feelings of despondency. Kobayashi's message seems aimed at instilling hope and facilitating a mindset conducive to overcoming challenges.

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