The Wisdom of Silence: A Lesson from a Japanese Proverb

 


There is a unique Japanese proverb, "Iwanu ga hana," which directly translates to, "If you don't say anything, you'll remain a flower." This proverb teaches that unnecessary words can make the recipient feel uncomfortable or disappointed, potentially harming the relationship. It's a reminder that sometimes, silence akin to a flower is the best option.

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