A Journey through My Diverse Perspectives

  Looking back on my life, each year has brought goals and challenges that demanded focus and effort, and I have done my best to meet them. At times I succeeded, but there were also many failures along the way. From my early forties onward, I made a conscious decision to learn from those failures and use them as fuel for the future, rather than dwell on regret. Even now in retirement, challenges continue to arise, whether I welcome them or not. While it is possible to drift through the days without setting clear goals, I feel that doing so quietly stifles growth and erodes one’s sense of purpose. To live without regret, it is essential to actively pursue what needs to be done—and what we truly wish to do—here and now.

  There is an old Japanese proverb, said to originate from Buddhist thought, called “Aien Kien.” “Aien” refers to a bond formed through natural affinity or love, while “Kien” describes a mysterious coincidence. In other words, whether people meet and connect harmoniously may depend on an unseen force of “Innen,” or fated connection. If this holds true, then encountering someone on social media with whom we share an immediate sense of chemistry—and building a lasting relationship of trust—can be seen as a rare and meaningful coincidence, almost miraculous in nature.

  In my youth, I had no deep awareness of the Buddhist concept of cause and effect in life, which states that “what you say and do comes back to you.” However, around the age of 42, I experienced a painful setback and a period of deep despair, through which I came to understand the true meaning of cause and effect—something that had never crossed my mind before. Furthermore, I realized that unless I changed myself, similar events leading to major setbacks might occur again. I am not a particularly superstitious person, but in Japan it has long been believed that men who turn 42 (by traditional Japanese age reckoning) enter a period of great misfortune, when the consequences of past good and bad actions return to them. In my case, after passing that age, I could not help feeling that I, too, was experiencing such a period. In terms of personal growth, however, these arduous experiences gave me a valuable opportunity to understand myself more deeply and ultimately helped me grow as a...

  Knowledge and experience gained through effort can be seen as intangible intellectual assets that rarely disappear. We never know when they may prove useful—sometimes immediately, and sometimes, in my own experience, even thirty years later. At other times, they emerge in completely unexpected situations. In such moments, we may even feel a sense of destiny, realizing that the intellectual assets we built through past efforts were never in vain.

  The sight of someone wholeheartedly devoted to something is truly beautiful and radiant, often stirring empathy and emotion in those around them. Why are we so deeply moved by such people? Perhaps it is because their efforts are not driven by ego, but by sincerity and selflessness. When a person pours their energy into something good with genuine dedication, that invisible energy spreads like ripples, touching the hearts of others. It awakens empathy, inspires quiet admiration, and sometimes even encourages us to follow the same path.

  The Japanese proverb, “If you wait, calm and perfect weather for sailing will eventually come,” teaches that even when circumstances are unfavorable, if we continue to work diligently and patiently without becoming discouraged, fortune will eventually turn and good opportunities will appear. It also reminds us that success often depends not only on effort but also on timing. This wisdom suggests that perseverance and patience form one of the surest paths to success—not only in short-term challenges but throughout the long journey of life.

  It is said that words are a manifestation of the heart. If this is true, then by increasing our stock of beautiful words that can clearly express the subtleties of our hearts and intuitions, and by using them effectively, we can deepen our communication with others and resonate with them on a higher level. Such resonance can, in turn, bring mutual emotional nourishment and quiet joy, leading to a deeper sense of fulfillment.

  When I was young, I often heard older people say, “Young people these days are indifferent and lack guts and perseverance.” Today, many seniors of my generation or older say, “Young people these days don’t respect their elders and lack guts and perseverance.” It seems that such remarks have been repeated from generation to generation since ancient times. Yet among these seniors, there are occasionally those who say, “Young people today are polite, and many of them are excellent.” Perhaps these individuals have the ability to see the good in others. Without creating psychological barriers between generations, they interact with young people openly and without prejudice—and are therefore naturally liked by them in any era.

  When writing a short essay, there are times when ideas flow naturally and the words come easily. At other times, however, no ideas appear, even after I rack my brain again and again. Why does this difference occur? Perhaps when ideas come freely, the mind is calm and at peace, allowing inspiration to arise naturally. When ideas refuse to appear, however, the mind may be crowded with worldly desires or distracted by other interests, while the wish to write grows stronger and creates a quiet sense of anxiety. For this reason, when trying to draw out ideas, it is important to bring ourselves into a state of inner calm and concentration—sometimes through something as simple as a short meditation.

  There are people who make us feel safe and comforted simply by being with them. However, even if those who judge them by conventional standards may see them as unremarkable or not particularly outstanding, the sense of reassurance they bring to others is in fact their true strength. When such people are placed in roles suited to their nature, they can perform to their full potential—like a fish in water. It may be a bit of a stretch to draw a broad conclusion from this alone, but each person has their own unique characteristics. Even if someone does not appear superior by general standards, when their role matches their nature and abilities, they can become irreplaceable and have the potential to make a meaningful contribution to an organization or society.

  If we pause and take a fresh look around our homes, we begin to notice that we are surrounded by things shaped through countless trials and errors, refined by advancing technology, and carefully crafted or cultivated with skilled hands. When we truly reflect on this, we recognize the value of what we so easily take for granted, and gratitude naturally arises within us. Our lives rest upon the accumulated efforts of those who came before us and those who continue to create and sustain the world today.

  Although it is rare, there are times in life when multiple problems pile up all at once. In such moments, we feel overwhelmed and ask ourselves why these trials are happening to us. Yet the only thing we can truly do is quietly swallow those negative thoughts, set them aside, and calmly—tantan to, as we say in Japanese—address the small tasks that lead toward a solution, one by one. By freeing our minds from agitation and returning to a steady, composed state, we gradually regain our strength and clarity.

  As we grow older and witness the passage of time—such as the gentle shift from a harsh winter to a warm spring that brings a quiet sense of hope—we become more sensitive to the kindness and blessings of nature. With that sensitivity comes a deeper appreciation and a stronger awareness of the importance of living in the present moment. This is a subtle richness of life that often escapes us when we are caught up in the busyness of daily work.

  When we go for a walk, we can’t reach our destination unless we take one step at a time. If we stop along the way, we’ll never arrive. Even if we turn around and walk backward toward our destination, progress is still possible—it just takes longer and feels more difficult. The same is true in life. Direction matters, but so does perseverance. No matter the obstacles we face, steady progress—one small step at a time—is what carries us forward. What matters most is not that every step is perfect, but that we continue moving toward the right path.

  Everyone experiences ups and downs in life. When those experiences become especially difficult or overwhelming, it takes time to move past them, and we often long for words of truth or guidance that can provide the mental support we need to endure. In many cases, we must search for that emotional support ourselves. This is never easy, but if we continue searching without giving up, we eventually find something—or someone—that helps sustain us. The process of finding that support can feel indescribably painful while we are in the midst of it. Yet when we look back on our lives from a long-term perspective, we begin to see that this struggle was also a period of profound growth. Like a plant putting down roots beneath the soil, this unseen and difficult process strengthens us, allowing us to stand more firmly in the future.