Finding Purpose in Retirement
One of
the most significant changes in my mental state before and after retirement is
the peace of mind that comes with having more free time each day. Before
retiring, my thoughts were consumed by work, leaving me indifferent to the
beauty of nature and the subtle shifts that come with the seasons and the
passage of time. However, after retirement, I became surprisingly attuned to
these details. With newfound tranquility, I began to sense a deep connection
with nature, recognizing that I am merely a small part of a vast, ever-changing
world. Another profound shift was my growing awareness of life’s impermanence.
While the abundance of free time brought me peace, it also heightened my
understanding that life has an inevitable end—though its timing remains unknown.
This realization deepened my resolve to cherish each day. I began to focus on
what truly matters to me, free from the concerns of how others perceive me, a
mindset that had often influenced me before retirement. To uncover what is
truly important, I repeatedly questioned myself, delving deep into my own
psychology. Reflecting on past hardships—moments when I faced setbacks in both
work and personal life—I arrived at a profound realization: Now, it is my turn
to help those who are struggling as I once did. From the start, I understood
that turning this aspiration into reality would be a long and challenging
journey. Yet, with each obstacle I overcome, I experience a sense of joy and
fulfillment. What began as a personal mission has now evolved into my life’s
purpose in retirement.