Meaning in the Present

 

I sometimes feel envious when I see people who, in retirement, have the freedom to devote so much time to the things they love. Yet some people, due to various circumstances, must spend much of their time on matters other than themselves. When such a situation continues for years, they may become anxious and discouraged, fearing that by the time they finally have ample free time, their physical and cognitive abilities will have declined, leaving them with limitations that make it difficult to pursue their interests. In such circumstances, however, it is a mark of wisdom to accept one's situation as part of one's fate, face it honestly, and find meaning in it—even when it does not directly concern oneself. Rather than dwelling on what cannot be changed, adopting a positive mindset can make a meaningful difference. It is much like the familiar image of a glass being either “half-empty” or “half-full”: if something must be done regardless, choosing the latter perspective is clearly more constructive. No one knows what the future holds. Therefore, finding meaning in the present and approaching life with a positive attitude are essential to living without regrets, rather than comparing our lives with those of others. At the same time, even under limited circumstances, it is important to devote whatever free time we have to the things we love, as much as possible.

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